Sending Money Digitally: 5 Safety Tips for Older Adults

Picture it: you’re at the new Italian bistro in town, savoring a delicious pasta meal with a friend. When the check arrives, you reach for your wallet—only to realize you've left it at home. Your companion generously offers to cover your portion of the check and says you can pay them back later. Luckily, they don’t need to wait. You pull out your phone, open your favorite peer-to-peer (P2P) payment platform, and send the money directly to your friend with a few taps of your finger.

P2P payment platforms can be a quick and easy way to send money to someone you know at a moment’s notice, right from your mobile phone. They are ideal for everyday and emergency situations, giving recipients direct access to their money. 

“Digital payment platforms allow us to send money quickly without the hassle of carrying cash," said Michelle Reams, Director of Partner Marketing at Zelle. "However, because of this convenience it’s important to slow down and be mindful of who you are sending money to. Much like cash, your money can be hard to get back once you have sent it."

How do digital payment platforms and apps work?

P2P payment platforms like Zelle, Paypal, and Venmo allow users to send and receive money from their mobile devices through a linked bank account, debit card, or credit card. In some cases, the sender and recipient must have U.S. bank accounts (they do not have to be from the same financial institution) and be registered with the platform being used to send money. Using digital payment platforms is very similar to handing someone cash.

There are many digital payment platforms to choose from today. These different services may have varying speeds, fees, reimbursement policies, safety measures, and other features to consider when exploring your options.

How can I stay safe when sending money using a digital payment platform?

There’s no doubt P2P payment platforms are a convenient tool in our busy lives. But it’s important to understand how to use them wisely.

Here are five tips to help you safely send money digitally:

1. Send money only to people you trust. They’re called “peer-to-peer” payment platforms for a reason—these services are best used with people you know. It’s a good idea to limit your recipients to family members, friends, and other people you trust. Why is this so important? Typically, once you send money with a P2P payment platform, the transaction can't be cancelled. If you send money to a stranger in error, it may be difficult to get it back.

2. Be aware of payment scams. A payment scam is when you’re tricked into authorizing a payment under false pretenses (see common payment scams targeting older adults). Some examples of payment scams are: 

• You receive a call from someone pretending to be from your utility company. They claim there’s a problem with your account, and then guide you through a process to “fix” the problem. This fix requires a one-time password be sent to your phone via text message. If you give the scammer that code, they may be able to take over your payment platform account and transfer money without your permission.
• On a social media post, a scammer advertises (non-existent) puppies for sale, and asks you to send them money online as a deposit. The scammer gives you info on how to send them money using a payment platform. Thinking your money will be exchanged for a puppy, you actually walk away with nothing, and they've made off with your cash.
• You receive a call from someone claiming they’re your grandchild. They say they’re in trouble with the police and need money to get out of jail, and they ask you to send money to them.

For more information, see our article on ways to avoid an online payment scam.

3. Confirm your recipient’s contact information. You want to send a family member money you owe them. You type in their mobile phone number, username, or email address; enter the amount; and hit send. But your family member claims they never received the money. You check, and realize you entered their information incorrectly and accidentally sent money to a total stranger by mistake.

Keep in mind that it’s your responsibility to make sure you have the correct contact information or username for the person you want to send money to. These tips can help you prevent erroneous payments:                                            

• Double-check (or even triple-check!) for typos in the recipient’s email address before you hit send.
• If the payment platform you’re using offers this feature, scan a QR code to find the correct recipient. This eliminates guesswork.
• When in doubt, contact the recipient to verify their information. To be sure, you can also send a test payment of $1 to confirm that the money is going to the right place.

4. Protect your payment platform account(s). If you regularly use mobile payments, it’s essential to protect and monitor your account. A simple way to help ensure safe payments is to use a strong password (and don’t use the same password across multiple accounts/sites). These additional tips from the American Bankers Association can also help you keep your account—and your money—secure:

5. Understand your various payment options. Today, there are often multiple ways to pay for products and services. It’s important to check the terms and conditions of your preferred payment method. If you choose to use a P2P payment platform, you should first carefully research the protections and rules for that specific platform. 

Not all transactions are suitable for using the P2P payment method. “Digital payment platforms are a great option to use with people you already know for things like splitting the cost of a takeout dinner or tickets to the local theater," Reams said.  "If you need to pay someone you haven’t met before, it may be best to use a payment option that comes with more protections, like a credit card.”