How Much Does Assisted Living Cost?

Jul 31, 2023
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As his mother’s needs increased, David Moore, a North Carolina resident who cares for his 80-year-old mother, worried it could become too challenging to keep her at home. But when he started researching assisted living options, he found it was hard to get clear answers about cost. When he did manage to get answers about monthly fees, the fees were much higher than he expected. While Moore wanted to find a facility with the best possible care, his mother’s financial resources were limited, so budget would have to be a big part of the assisted living conversation.

Moore is not alone in his search for assisted living or in his concern about the cost. In the NCOA Adviser Local Care Reviews Team’s 2023 survey, we asked 1,000 older adults and their caregivers about their search for senior living options. Nearly 70% of respondents cited cost as one of the most important factors in their search for assisted living. [1]Local Care Reviews Team survey. 1,000 respondents. Conducted using Pollfish. Launched March 2023. While safety concerns, cleanliness, and peace of mind came in above cost in terms of importance, the survey results pointed to the importance of finances in selecting senior living. Older adults and their care partners can’t ignore that assisted living often comes with a hefty price tag. But is it more or less affordable than other care options? And do you or your care partner have the resources to cover it?

Our Local Care Reviews Team team broke down the factors that influence the cost of assisted living and provided a comprehensive guide to monthly fees and how to cover them.

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How much does assisted living cost?

According to the Genworth 2021 Cost of Care Survey, the average monthly cost of assisted living is $4,500. This fee may increase due to the price of additional services, such as help with activities of daily living (ADLs) ⓘActivities of daily living, also called ADLs, are activities related to necessary personal care. These include bathing, dressing, toileting, eating, walking, and transferring in and out of a bed or chair., like bathing or dressing. [2]Genworth. 2021 Cost of Care Survey. Found on the internet at https://www.genworth.com/aging-and-you/finances/cost-of-care.html Because assisted living facilities are regulated on the state level, the cost and scope of services will vary widely based on where you live. For example, Genworth reported the average cost of assisted living in Florida is about $4,000 per month; in Oregon, it’s $5,045; and in Alaska, the average cost of assisted living is more than $6,000 per month.

Assisted living pricing structures

Our research found that most assisted living facilities provide residents a base fee for room and board and then add additional monthly fees based on the level of care each resident needs. In most cases, the more care you or a care recipient needs, the more expensive assisted living will be.

Nearly all assisted living facilities will require an assessment prior to, or shortly after, a resident’s move-in date. The purpose of the assessment is to provide each resident with a level of care appropriate for their needs, and to ensure that the assisted living facility can provide that care. Because assisted living is regulated on the state level, the forms used for these assessments will vary from state to state and sometimes even from facility to facility. Assisted living resident assessment forms used in Rhode Island and Oklahoma show that residents are typically evaluated on the following criteria: [3]Rhode Island Department of Health. Assisted Living Resident Assessment. Found on the internet at https://health.ri.gov/forms/assessment/AssistedLivingResident.pdf [4]Oklahoma State Department of Health. Recommended Assisted Living Resident Assessment Form. Found on the internet at https://oklahoma.gov/content/dam/ok/en/health/health2/aem-documents/protective-health/long-term-care-services/forms/ltc-comprehensive-assessment-form-for-al.pdf

After this evaluation, Carla Payne, a certified life care manager and founder of Aging Care Matters in Wake Forest, North Carolina, shared that a base rate of $2,500 can easily balloon to $5,000 or more per month. “A community may start with a base rate of $2,500 for just the room with meals included,” she said, “but after an assessment by the nurse, the person is deemed to need medication management, which adds money to the base fee. Or the person is incontinent and needs assistance in the bathroom, which again adds money.”

Here’s how those fees break down in two facilities we researched:

In most facilities, residents are regularly assessed, and their level of care may change based on that assessment. Older adults and their caregivers should know the cost of assisted living will increase along with the resident’s needs.

Assisted living hidden fees

Before signing a lease with an assisted living facility, be sure you read the contract’s fine print. Gerontologist Christina Peoples, founder and lead educator at GeroWhat?!, shared that overlooking important parts of the assisted living contract, combined with a lack of transparency from staff, can result in residents experiencing “anxiety, discharge for nonpayment, and distrust in staff.” To avoid these issues, read the contract closely and consider having an elder law attorney review it before you sign. Also, ask questions about fees that could increase the monthly assisted living payment.

Community fees

Many assisted living facilities require new residents to pay an initial community fee. This one-time fee, often used to prepare a unit for the next occupant, is usually nonrefundable and can range from $1,000–$5,000. One facility we researched in Columbus, Ohio, asked for a $1,500 community fee. Another facility in Greenville, South Carolina, asked for a $2,500 community fee.

Rent increases

Assisted living facilities often increase rates on an annual basis. Payne estimated annual increases to be between 4% and in some cases as high as 10%. That kind of increase can make a significant difference in your budget. Before signing an agreement with an assisted living facility, ask about annual rent increases.

Fees for increased level of care

Even if a care recipient starts assisted living at the lowest level of care, a person’s needs will usually increase as they age. Events, like unexpected illnesses or falls, can increase the need for care, which will in turn increase your monthly costs. Be sure to ask the facilities you tour about the fees associated with every level of care. Also, if a person’s needs progress to the point the facility can no longer provide the level of care the resident requires, what steps will the facility take to help you find care you need and can afford?

Memory care fees

The National Center for Assisted Living (NCAL) reported that 42% of assisted living residents are living with Alzheimer’s disease or another form of dementia. [5]The National Center for Assisted Living. Assisted Living Facts and Figures (Residents). Found on the internet at https://www.ahcancal.org/Assisted-Living/Facts-and-Figures/Pages/default.aspx When a person’s dementia progresses to the point they can no longer carry out most ADLs or are at risk of wandering outside the facility, it’s time for memory care. A switch from assisted living to a memory care unit in the same facility can significantly increase monthly fees. For reference, the average monthly cost of memory care is $6,160. [6]Dementia Care Central. Alzheimer’s / Dementia Care Costs: Home Care, Adult Day Care, Assisted Living & Nursing Homes. Found on the internet at https://www.dementiacarecentral.com/assisted-living-home-care-costs/ That’s about $1,600 more each month than the cost of assisted living alone.

Factors that influence assisted living costs

Where you live, how much care you need, and the type of facility all influence how much you’ll pay for assisted living. To make an accurate estimate of your monthly assisted living costs, include each of the following factors in your calculations.

Size of living quarters

Many assisted living facilities offer apartments in different sizes, such as a studio or a one-bedroom apartment. In general, the smaller your living quarters, the less you’ll pay, except in the case of a shared room, which is usually more affordable than a private apartment.

Level of care

Once assessed by the assisted living staff, a care recipient will be placed in a corresponding level of care. This level of care will determine how much you pay for personal care services each month. Our research shows these fees range from $300 per month for daily medication management or administration to as much as $1,700 per month for help with multiple ADLs.

Amenities

Facilities with several modern amenities, such as fitness centers, spas, or movie theaters, may be more expensive than facilities with fewer amenities. Payne suggested looking beyond aesthetics and focusing, instead, on the quality of the staff and the care they provide. Some of the smaller, more affordable facilities may provide excellent care, even if they’re not as fancy as facilities owned by large companies. Ask, too, about staff turnover.

Geographic location

Where you live in the country plays a role in how much you pay for assisted living. Genworth reported the average monthly cost of assisted living in Alaska is $6,830. In Arkansas, it’s $3,760. Cost also varies within states. For example, the average monthly cost of assisted living in Boston, Massachusetts, is $6,819. In Pittsfield, Massachusetts, on the eastern side of the state, the average monthly cost of assisted living is $2,084. [2]Genworth. 2021 Cost of Care Survey. Found on the internet at https://www.genworth.com/aging-and-you/finances/cost-of-care.html

Table 1 Average monthly cost of assisted living by state and selected cities, as of 2021

StateAverage Monthly Cost of Assisted LivingCity 1Average Monthly Cost of Assisted LivingCity 2Average Monthly Cost of Assisted Living
Alabama$3,503Birmingham$4,028Mobile$3,523
Alaska$6,830Anchorage$6,765Fairbanks$7,250
Arizona$4,000Tucson$4,050Flagstaff$5,000
Arkansas$3,760Little Rock$4,488Pine Bluff$3,329
California$5,250San Francisco$6,319Bakersfield$3,750
Colorado$4,750Denver$5,500Boulder$6,275
Connecticut$5,129Norwich$4,300Bridgeport$6,273
Delaware$5,995Dover$6,073District of Columbia*$5,948
Florida$4,000Naples$5,300Ocala$3,850
Georgia$3,535Atlanta$3,845Valdosta$3,179
Hawaii$5,375Honolulu$5,375Kahului$3,825
Idaho$3,838Twin Falls$3,820Coeur d’Alene$4,675
Illinois$4,488Decatur$4,382Carbondale$3,525
Indiana$4,283Indianapolis$4,478Fort Wayne$3,485
Iowa$4,367Des Moines$4,803Sioux City$4,148
Kansas$4,580Wichita$5,425Topeka$4,495
Kentucky$3,448Louisville$3,500Lexington$4,568
Louisiana$3,748New Orleans$3,973Monroe$2,650
Maine$5,865Portland$6,525Bangor$4,750
Maryland$4,900District of Columbia*$5,948Baltimore$4,750
Massachusetts$6,500Boston$6,819Pittsfield$2,084
Michigan$4,250Detroit$4,215Battle Creek$3,400
Minnesota$4,508Minneapolis$5,163Duluth$5,000
Mississippi$3,500Jackson$4,350Gulfport$3,800
Missouri$3,000Jefferson City$2,075St. Louis$4,100
Montana$4,450Missoula$4,650Billings$4,564
Nebraska$4,076Lincoln$4,175Grand Island$2,906
Nevada$3,750Las Vegas$3,650Carson City$3,820
New Hampshire$6,053Manchester$8,061N/AN/A
New Jersey$6,495Atlantic City$5,807Ocean City$7,490
New Mexico$4,498Albuquerque$4,750Farmington$3,999
New York$4,580New York City$5,750Ithaca$8,075
North Carolina$4,010Charlotte$4,400Fayetteville$3,000
North Dakota$3,391Bismarck$3,710Fargo$3,840
Ohio$4,635Columbus$4,085Springfield$3,660
Oklahoma$3,855Oklahoma City$4,800Tulsa$3,855
Oregon$5,045Portland$4,975Eugene$5,623
Pennsylvania$4,100Philadelphia$5,685Pittsburgh$3,250
Rhode Island$6,826Providence$6,063N/AN/A
South Carolina$3,612Hilton Head$4,500Greenville$3,743
South Dakota$3,350Rapid City$3,914Sioux Falls$2,910
Tennessee$4,105Nashville$4,100Jackson$4,240
Texas$3,998Dallas$4,195Odessa$4,398
Utah$3,500Salt Lake City$3,310St. George$3,500
Vermont$5,250Burlington$6,371N/AN/A
Virginia$5,250Richmond$4,901Roanoke$5,925
Washington$6,000Seattle$6,750Yakima$4,975
West Virginia$4,160Charleston$4,750Parkersburg$5,444
Wisconsin$4,600Milwaukee$5,324Eau Claire$4,375
Wyoming$4,169Casper$4,844Cheyenne$5,538

Source: Genworth 2021 Cost of Care Survey. In some cases, data is only available for one metro area per state.

*District of Columbia added to Delaware and Maryland for cost comparison to nearby metro area.

How to pay for assisted living

The search for assisted living can feel overwhelming, especially when it comes to cost. It’s important to carefully consider the cost of each facility you visit, and then have an honest discussion about how you’ll cover the fees. For planning purposes, it may be helpful to know the average stay in assisted living is about 22 months. [5]The National Center for Assisted Living. Assisted Living Facts and Figures (Residents). Found on the internet at https://www.ahcancal.org/Assisted-Living/Facts-and-Figures/Pages/default.aspx After that, about 60% of residents transition out of assisted living to a skilled nursing facility.

Personal savings

Many people pay for assisted living using their personal savings. This may include Social Security benefits, 401(k) or IRA accounts, pension payments, or stocks.

Home equity

Proceeds from the sale of your home can also be used to help pay for assisted living. In the event one spouse is staying in the home and the other requires assisted living, assisted living costs can be covered by a reverse mortgage, which allows homeowners to use their own home as security for the loan. [9]Consumer Financial Protection Bureau. What is a reverse mortgage? Found on the internet at https://www.consumerfinance.gov/ask-cfpb/what-is-a-reverse-mortgage-en-224/ Before making this kind of financial decision, always get the advice of a trusted financial advisor.

Long-term care insurance

If you have long-term care insurance, you may be reimbursed for some of the cost of assisted living, but it’s important to know the details of your policy. Many have a 90-day elimination period during which the beneficiary has to pay for services out of pocket. If you start the 90-day elimination period the day you move into assisted living, you could be responsible for thousands of dollars in expenses. To save money, Payne recommended using that 90-day out-of-pocket period on less expensive services, like in-home care, prior to moving to an assisted living community.

Veterans benefits

If a care recipient is a veteran or the surviving spouse of a veteran, you may qualify for Veterans Aid and Attendance benefits, which help to reduce the cost of assisted living. These benefits will not cover the cost of room and board, but they will pay for many other services provided to veterans in assisted living facilities, such as medication management and help with ADLs. Check with the Department of Veterans Affairs or use BenefitsCheckUp to explore your options. Additionally, state veteran homes may be an option for those who qualify.

Life insurance benefits and conversions

Some people use life insurance to pay for long-term care, either through life settlements or accelerated death benefits. [7]LongTermCare.gov. Using Life Insurance to Pay for Long-term Care. Found on the internet at https://acl.gov/ltc/costs-and-who-pays/who-pays-long-term-care/using-life-insurance-to-pay-for-long-term-care In a life settlement, women over the age of 74 and men over the age of 70 can sell their policy for the cash value of the policy’s death benefit. Be aware, though, that you may not receive the benefit’s full cash value in this kind of arrangement. The same is true for accelerated death benefits, which are tax-free advances on a policy’s death benefit that are capped at 50% of the policy’s full benefit.

Medicare

Medicare will not pay for any form of long-term care. But you can use Medicare to help cover the cost of some goods and services received in assisted living. These include:

Medicaid and Medicaid waiver programs

All Medicaid programs have some federal oversight, but states run their own individual Medicaid programs. This means Medicaid eligibility and available services will vary depending on where you live. In most cases, Medicaid will pay for selected services that Medicaid-eligible older adults receive while they are assisted living residents, such as personal care services, case management, transportation to doctor’s appointments, and personal medical alert systems.

While Medicaid itself cannot be used to cover room and board for living expenses, Medicaid combined with waiver programs can be used toward the total amount of assisted living costs in some states. These Medicaid 1915(c) Home & Community-Based Services (HCBS) waivers have broad federal guidelines, and states tailor them to meet the needs of residents in their state. [8]Medicaid.gov. Home & Community-Based Services 1915(c). Found on the internet at https://www.medicaid.gov/medicaid/home-community-based-services/home-community-based-services-authorities/home-community-based-services-1915c/index.html

Currently, there are 300 HCBS waiver programs across the United States. In North Carolina, a social worker helped Moore start a Medicaid application for his mother and also encouraged him to apply for Special Assistance, a North Carolina Medicaid waiver that can help eligible older adults pay for the cost of assisted living.“Talking to the social worker at our local senior center was really helpful in navigating the Medicaid maze,” Moore said. “It’s a good idea to get an expert to help you through the process.”

Most assisted living facilities are private pay, and it can be hard to find quality assisted living facilities with Medicaid beds. In addition, not all states offer Medicaid waivers that cover the costs of care provided in assisted living communities. It’s a good idea to start your search early and get on waiting lists at facilities that meet your standards.

To get answers about your Medicaid coverage, contact your state’s Medicaid agency, find a Medicaid advisor through your local area agency on aging, or consult BenefitsCheckUp.

Tax deductions for assisted living

You can help reduce overall cost by deducting expenses associated with assisted living on your tax return. [10]Internal Revenue Service. Medical, Nursing Home, Special Care Expenses. Found on the internet at https://www.irs.gov/faqs/itemized-deductions-standard-deduction/medical-nursing-home-special-care-expenses/medical-nursing-home-special-care-expenses While the cost of assisted living room and board is not tax deductible, it’s possible to deduct expenses for medical care you or a care recipient receives in an assisted living community.

How do assisted living costs compare to other forms of older adult care?

To help you make an informed decision, it’s helpful to know how the cost of assisted living compares to the cost of other forms of care. Keep in mind the total cost of care could exceed the base cost cited by a company or facility. For example, the cost of a home health aide doesn’t include the cost of an existing mortgage or groceries and daily meals. And while the base cost of assisted living covers room and board, there may be additional fees for personal care services, like help with ADLs.

At an average monthly rate of $9,034 for a private room, nursing homes are more expensive than both assisted living and memory care. Keep in mind Medicaid will cover 100% of the cost of a nursing home for Medicaid-eligible older adults, but this is not the case with assisted living.

Adult day centers, which offer activities and some health support for older adults who need supervised care outside of the home during the day, cost about $1,690 per month. But these community-based programs only run on weekdays, so supplemental care may still be needed on weekends and evenings.

Table 2 Assisted living costs compared to other forms of older adult care

Assisted living costs compared to other forms of older adult care

Source: Genworth 2021 Cost of Care Survey and Dementia Care Central

*This number reflects the monthly cost of professional in-home care provided for 44 hours per week.

**This number reflects the cost of memory care in an assisted living facility; nursing homes do not charge more for residents with memory care needs.

Bottom line

When deciding where you want to live as you age, cost is an important factor. Assisted living is regulated on the state level, so the scope of care and corresponding fees will vary depending on where you live. In most cases, the more care you need, the more you will pay for assisted living.

Medicare and Medicaid can be used to pay for some health services received in assisted living, such as physical therapy or personal care services, but neither will pay for the cost of room and board. Medicaid in combination with a state-level Medicaid waiver, where available, will sometimes help older adults to cover the full cost of assisted living. But not all assisted living facilities have Medicaid beds. In this case, private pay is the only option for potential residents.

For some low- and middle-income Americans, the price of assisted living is prohibitive. Older adults and their caregivers should know there are alternatives to assisted living, such as in-home care. Still, assisted living can be a great choice for many older adults.

Waiting lists for assisted living facilities are common, so planning ahead is more important than ever. To ensure access to the best options for you or someone you care for, start your search early and with as much accurate information as possible.

Frequently asked questions

For older adults who qualify, Medicaid will help pay for health and personal care services received in assisted living. Medicaid alone will not cover the cost of room and board in assisted living, but state-level Medicaid waivers can sometimes help cover the cost of assisted living. Not all states offer these waivers.

The average monthly cost of assisted living in the United States is $4,500 monthly or $54,000 annually. The cost of assisted living varies widely from state to state.

Medicaid-eligible older adults can receive help with in-home care, assisted living, and nursing home care. For older adults who aren’t eligible for Medicaid, aging in place or in a family member’s home with as-needed in-home care may be an affordable option.

Medicare does not cover the cost of any form of long-term care, but it may cover the cost of prescription drugs, outpatient health care visits, and health care services received in an assisted living setting, such as physical therapy.

Have questions about this article? Email us at reviewsteam@ncoa.org.

Sources

  1. Local Care Reviews Team survey. 1,000 respondents. Conducted using Pollfish. Launched March 2023.
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  8. Home & Community-Based Services 1915(c). Medicaid.gov. Found on the internet at https://www.medicaid.gov/medicaid/home-community-based-services/home-community-based-services-authorities/home-community-based-services-1915c/index.html.
  9. What is a reverse mortgage? Consumer Financial Protection Bureau. Found on the internet at https://www.consumerfinance.gov/ask-cfpb/what-is-a-reverse-mortgage-en-224.
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Kate Van Dis
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Kate Van Dis is a health writer in Chapel Hill, North Carolina. She has written for various audiences on health & wellness, education, and aging. Her current focus is on assisted living, home care, and other extra-care housing options for older adults.
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